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This is part of a Siimon Reynolds series – When They Zig You Zag

Listen to Classical Music, not modern

Much research has been done on how a lot of rock music agitates the human nervous system. You may perhaps have heard of the research test where scientists played hard rock to plants for hours. The plants actually turned away from the speakers!

When played soothing classical music they turned to face the sound, evidently getting strength from it. In a recent US research study, it was found that most people performed better in IQ tests after listening to classical music, and Sheila Oestrander, the renowned expert on accelerated learning, says students can remember far more when listening to baroque classical pieces.

Switch from rock to classical and both your body and mind will thank you.

This is part of a Siimon Reynolds series – When They Zig You Zag

Put health before work and you’ll be more successful

Most people in business put health last. By devoting all their time to work they get ahead faster at first, but after a decade or so their body begins to rebel against all the strain, and sickness and mental lethargy slowly build up.

By the time the average person hits 50, they’ve lost most of their energy and their motivation. The very few people who put their health as their number one priority not only have much more spark in the second half of their careers, they also enjoy their first half a lot more because, being healthy, they’re much less prone to stress.

This is part of a Siimon Reynolds series – When They Zig You Zag

Do your most important job first each day

It seems so simple but hardly anyone does it! But doing this one thing will make you so much more effective.

There’s an interesting story about this. In the 1930s the steel magnate Charles Schwabb had a meeting with a young entrepreneur. This young man offered to teach Schwabb a way to increase his entire company’s productivity. All he asked in return was that Schwabb pay him what he thought it was worth.

The idea? Just write down the six most important things you should do each day and do number one first, before going on to number two. After trying this incredibly basic technique for a few weeks Schwab sent the young man a cheque for $25,000.

This is part of a Siimon Reynolds series – When They Zig You Zag

To stay young drink more water

Dehydration is believed by experts to be one of the major causes of ageing. Not only will you look old if you don’t drink much water (your skin becomes wrinkled), your kidneys will be less able to eliminate impurities efficiently.

Even brain cells are affected by dehydration. According to longevity expert, Professor Stanislaw Talalas, the average person loses about three litres of water a day. So drink at least two litres of water – the rest can come from water rich foods like vegetables and fruit.

This is part of a Siimon Reynolds series – When They Zig You Zag

Be clear about what you value in life
Do you value health over success? Family over career? Business over friendship? Spirituality over social life? What are your values? Most people don’t have a clue.

As a result they live wishy-washy lives, devoid of clear direction and power. As Confucius once said, ‘He who aims at nothing… is sure to hit it!’

Take half an hour to think about these areas of your life, and then list them in order of importance: Business, family life, social life, health, spirituality. Which is number one in importance? Which is number five? Once you’ve worked out what you value most, ask yourself whether you are currently living your life in accordance with that values ladder. If not, change your life.

Living a life according to your values is truly one of the great secrets to happiness.

How to Make Lasting Changes in Your Life
Thursday, October 15th, 2009

Here’s a post by Leo Babauta which discusses how slow and steady makes for long lasting changes in your life. Something to think about during the new year!


The Slow Secret: How to Make Lasting Changes in Your Life

Some of the reasons slow works, besides forming a groove:

1. Mindfulness. When you do something slowly, you can pay more attention to what you’re doing. I highly recommend that when you make changes, you do them mindfully, with full concentration. This increased awareness is necessary in the beginning, when you’re still forming the groove. Later, it’ll become automatic, but at first it’s anything but. You need to pay attention, and you can do this better when you do it slower.

2. You hold yourself back. Holding ourselves back is often considered a bad thing, but it’s not. It’s the best thing we can do, if we want changes to last. When we start a new change, often we are full of enthusiasm. But then we go all out and use up all of that enthusiasm, and run out of motivation or energy or get distracted by something else. But when you hold yourself back, you build up enthusiasm and keep it going for much longer — through that dreaded 2-3 week barrier when people often quit. So even if you want to run 3 miles at first, start with walking and then run-walking (in intervals), and only do a mile or so. You’ll want to do more, but stop yourself. Save that enthusiasm for next time.

3. You learn it right. Doing something slowly means you can learn to do it correctly, without being erratic, and later as it becomes second nature you’ll do it the right way. The importance is obvious in something like martial arts, but it’s also true in any physical activity. And every activity is physical (and mental).

4. Increased focus. When you do something slowly, you tend to do just one thing. It’s hard to multi-task and do something slowly — they don’t mix well. When you single-task, you can focus, instead of always being distracted. This leads to increased effectiveness.

5. Calm. Slow is calmer. Fast is hectic. Go slow to get rid of the chaos, and find peace.

“Slow down, everyone. You’re moving too fast.” - Jack Johnson


Going slow (at first) is the trick to making habits form and last. The rest of the article can be found at Zen Habits.

Alain de Botton examines our ideas of success and failure — and questions the assumptions underlying these two judgments. Is success always earned? Is failure? He makes an eloquent, witty case to move beyond snobbery to find true pleasure in our work.

This is probably the most entertaining TED talk I’ve hears so far, definitely worth the watch =)

Notes:

  • The world is full of snobs
    • Snobs = sb who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are (prejudice)
    • Eg. Job Snobbery = “What do you do?”
  • Most people make a strict correlation between how much time, love, respect we receive depending on our position in the hierarchy
  • It’s not the material goods (career, status etc) we want, it’s the rewards we want
  • Modern Society is now about equality, where anyone can rise to any position and they are able to achieve anything.
    • Envy derives from those who we can relate to
  • Meritocracy: people deserve to be at the top/bottom
    • Increase in suicide due to people who take failures personally
  • Judgement and Ridicule Vs Tragedy
    • via Media
  • Success + Loss, you can’t have one without the other
  • Our environment influences our desires
  • Make sure our ideas of success are truely our own
Philip Zimbardo’s Take on Time
Tuesday, July 21st, 2009

Notes:
Life is a Temptation
Instant Gratification Vs Delayed Gratification results in vast differences
Decision Making is affected by our Time Perspective: Past Orientation, Present Orientation, Future Orientation
Optimal Time Profile: Past-positive = High, Future = Moderately High, Present Hedonism = Moderate. Past-negative = Low, Present Fatalism = Low

Change Your Thinking
Friday, June 12th, 2009

Do you sabotage your ability to achieve your goals? What stops you, what can help you achieve them faster?

Here are 10 practical strategies to get you winning, today.

DON’T:

  1. Don’t let someone force a goal on you that you don’t really want – follow your heart.
  2. Don’t let the past stop you – past goals you failed to reach have nothing to do with NOW.
  3. Don’t think some of your goals are not important enough, not big enough – all your goals matter.
  4. Don’t be rigid. Yes, set a path, a goal, and go for it, but tunnel-vision can make you miss vital information and feedback.
  5. Don’t try to do everything yourself. Be willing to delegate.

DO:

  1. Have a clean conscience. When you feel guilty, you don’t feel that you deserve to get the goals you’re going for.
  2. Come from a place of service and helping others get what they want. Serve first and the Universe serves you.
  3. Celebrate your wins. Reaching a goal is cause for celebration – and it leads to MORE wins!
  4. Support those people who support you – flow power and support to them. It creates a win/win loop of power, and everyone wins.
  5. Every day make a list of what you are grateful for – express your gratitude for everything and everyone you can think of!

Click here to learn how to Change Your Thinking

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