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This is part of a Siimon Reynolds series - When They Zig You Zag

To stay young drink more water

Dehydration is believed by experts to be one of the major causes of ageing. Not only will you look old if you don’t drink much water (your skin becomes wrinkled), your kidneys will be less able to eliminate impurities efficiently.

Even brain cells are affected by dehydration. According to longevity expert, Professor Stanislaw Talalas, the average person loses about three litres of water a day. So drink at least two litres of water – the rest can come from water rich foods like vegetables and fruit.

Filed under: When They Zig You Zag — Tags: , — Yong-Long Lai @ 1:19 am

This is part of a Siimon Reynolds series - When They Zig You Zag

Be clear about what you value in life
Do you value health over success? Family over career? Business over friendship? Spirituality over social life? What are your values? Most people don’t have a clue.

As a result they live wishy-washy lives, devoid of clear direction and power. As Confucius once said, ‘He who aims at nothing… is sure to hit it!’

Take half an hour to think about these areas of your life, and then list them in order of importance: Business, family life, social life, health, spirituality. Which is number one in importance? Which is number five? Once you’ve worked out what you value most, ask yourself whether you are currently living your life in accordance with that values ladder. If not, change your life.

Living a life according to your values is truly one of the great secrets to happiness.

Filed under: When They Zig You Zag — Tags: , , — Yong-Long Lai @ 1:19 am
How to Make Lasting Changes in Your Life
Thursday, October 15th, 2009

Here’s a post by Leo Babauta which discusses how slow and steady makes for long lasting changes in your life. Something to think about during the new year!


The Slow Secret: How to Make Lasting Changes in Your Life

Some of the reasons slow works, besides forming a groove:

1. Mindfulness. When you do something slowly, you can pay more attention to what you’re doing. I highly recommend that when you make changes, you do them mindfully, with full concentration. This increased awareness is necessary in the beginning, when you’re still forming the groove. Later, it’ll become automatic, but at first it’s anything but. You need to pay attention, and you can do this better when you do it slower.

2. You hold yourself back. Holding ourselves back is often considered a bad thing, but it’s not. It’s the best thing we can do, if we want changes to last. When we start a new change, often we are full of enthusiasm. But then we go all out and use up all of that enthusiasm, and run out of motivation or energy or get distracted by something else. But when you hold yourself back, you build up enthusiasm and keep it going for much longer — through that dreaded 2-3 week barrier when people often quit. So even if you want to run 3 miles at first, start with walking and then run-walking (in intervals), and only do a mile or so. You’ll want to do more, but stop yourself. Save that enthusiasm for next time.

3. You learn it right. Doing something slowly means you can learn to do it correctly, without being erratic, and later as it becomes second nature you’ll do it the right way. The importance is obvious in something like martial arts, but it’s also true in any physical activity. And every activity is physical (and mental).

4. Increased focus. When you do something slowly, you tend to do just one thing. It’s hard to multi-task and do something slowly — they don’t mix well. When you single-task, you can focus, instead of always being distracted. This leads to increased effectiveness.

5. Calm. Slow is calmer. Fast is hectic. Go slow to get rid of the chaos, and find peace.

“Slow down, everyone. You’re moving too fast.” - Jack Johnson


Going slow (at first) is the trick to making habits form and last. The rest of the article can be found at Zen Habits.

Filed under: Articles, Self Improvement — Tags: — Selina Lai @ 6:15 am

Alain de Botton examines our ideas of success and failure — and questions the assumptions underlying these two judgments. Is success always earned? Is failure? He makes an eloquent, witty case to move beyond snobbery to find true pleasure in our work.

This is probably the most entertaining TED talk I’ve hears so far, definitely worth the watch =)

Notes:

  • The world is full of snobs
    • Snobs = sb who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are (prejudice)
    • Eg. Job Snobbery = “What do you do?”
  • Most people make a strict correlation between how much time, love, respect we receive depending on our position in the hierarchy
  • It’s not the material goods (career, status etc) we want, it’s the rewards we want
  • Modern Society is now about equality, where anyone can rise to any position and they are able to achieve anything.
    • Envy derives from those who we can relate to
  • Meritocracy: people deserve to be at the top/bottom
    • Increase in suicide due to people who take failures personally
  • Judgement and Ridicule Vs Tragedy
    • via Media
  • Success + Loss, you can’t have one without the other
  • Our environment influences our desires
  • Make sure our ideas of success are truely our own
Filed under: Self Improvement — Tags: , — Selina Lai @ 8:38 am
Philip Zimbardo’s Take on Time
Tuesday, July 21st, 2009

Notes:
Life is a Temptation
Instant Gratification Vs Delayed Gratification results in vast differences
Decision Making is affected by our Time Perspective: Past Orientation, Present Orientation, Future Orientation
Optimal Time Profile: Past-positive = High, Future = Moderately High, Present Hedonism = Moderate. Past-negative = Low, Present Fatalism = Low

Filed under: Self Improvement — Tags: , — Selina Lai @ 9:01 am
Change Your Thinking
Friday, June 12th, 2009

Do you sabotage your ability to achieve your goals? What stops you, what can help you achieve them faster?

Here are 10 practical strategies to get you winning, today.

DON’T:

  1. Don’t let someone force a goal on you that you don’t really want - follow your heart.
  2. Don’t let the past stop you - past goals you failed to reach have nothing to do with NOW.
  3. Don’t think some of your goals are not important enough, not big enough - all your goals matter.
  4. Don’t be rigid. Yes, set a path, a goal, and go for it, but tunnel-vision can make you miss vital information and feedback.
  5. Don’t try to do everything yourself. Be willing to delegate.

DO:

  1. Have a clean conscience. When you feel guilty, you don’t feel that you deserve to get the goals you’re going for.
  2. Come from a place of service and helping others get what they want. Serve first and the Universe serves you.
  3. Celebrate your wins. Reaching a goal is cause for celebration - and it leads to MORE wins!
  4. Support those people who support you - flow power and support to them. It creates a win/win loop of power, and everyone wins.
  5. Every day make a list of what you are grateful for - express your gratitude for everything and everyone you can think of!

Click here to learn how to Change Your Thinking

Filed under: Articles, Self Improvement — Tags: — Selina Lai @ 5:30 am

Topher Morrison | Winning the Game of Money

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Go to Your Success Club Events to find out more.

Filed under: Announcements, Self Improvement, Wealth Dynamics — Tags: , , , — Selina Lai @ 8:58 pm
Breakthrough to Success with Chris Howard
Friday, February 13th, 2009

Sorry for not posting this earlier, but there’s still time to attend a FREE session with Chris Howard.

Chris Howard is one of the world’s leading authorities on the psychology of wealth and accelerated personal achievement. Described as “the Warren Buffett of personal and professional development”, Chris’ dynamic presence and unique approach to attaining wealth and fulfilment captivate growing audiences each year through public seminars, television and radio.

Click here to find out more

Dates:

Europe
Dublin 20-22 February 2009
London 15-17 May 2009
London 20-22 March 2009
Australia and New Zealand
Melbourne 28-30 August 2009
Auckland 1-3 May 2009
Adelaide 10-12 April 2009
Perth 27 February - 1 March 2009
Sydney 27-29 March 2009
Brisbane 17-19 April 2009

Here’s a few of the things you will get out of this event:

  • How to get into the mind of the world’s most successful people, model their behaviour and master new skills faster than ever before!
  • Why a groundbreaking discovery by ‘quantum scientists” is the secret to your happiness… and how to use this secret for unprecedented levels of success in your life!
  • The #1 mistake most people make on the road to achieving their goals!
  • How to discover what you really want in life.
  • How to quickly and easily develop the mindset of the most successful people in the world and leverage it for even more prosperity and wealth.
  • The best way to identify beliefs that are sabotaging your wealth, health and relationships.
  • A simple technique for crushing every obstacle in your path no matter how insurmountable you may think it is.
  • Why external issues are actually reflections of internal issues… and how to clarify insights into your mind for wealth on every level.
  • The 3 keys to transformation you MUST know before changes can last.
  • How to make change happen in an instant!
  • How to easily change your reality by changing your (revealed at BTS!)
  • The reason why two people can have the exact same experiences yet have completely different results. I call this the “Oprah Winfrey Secret”.

Click here to enrol now! (scroll to the bottom of the page)

Filed under: Self Improvement — Tags: , — Selina Lai @ 10:22 am
Self Improvement Online at Your Success Club
Monday, December 22nd, 2008

If you don’t already know, Your Success Club is like a self improvement online book store/library. We source the best information from all over the world and delivery it straight to your computer, whether in printed, audio or video format.

I understand that knowledge is important, but something more important than knowledge is your time! Simply because once you spent or invested your time, it is gone forever.

“When you spend your money, you can always make more. But once you spend your time, it is gone forever!”

Improving ourself is part of living, whether it be in career, finances, relationships, health etc. We have been brought up at a very young age where we learnt to sit, crawl, walk, run, talk and jump. After that, we all went to school and continue our learning. I think everybody has a certain hunger for knowledge to do something or find something bigger and better.

Learning can be fun but also time consuming when we have research for materials or spend hours at book stores and libraries. Having self improvement online has revolutionise the ‘learning’ industry, now people can learn to play musical instruments online, trade stock options, buy properties, drive cars etc. It’s amazing how a single person can access such powerful information through a click of their button and here at Your Success Club is your opportunity to access the incredible resources

To get a taste of self improvement online, here’s some great resources to kick start you on your journey => Click Here

Filed under: Self Improvement — Tags: — Yong-Long Lai @ 10:26 pm